Hello, Anne...

I haven't really been following your story, but when I read this post I found so much of what you were describing touching me in many ways. I've been through experiences very similar to yours lately, in nature if not exactly the same. Like everyone else I hate to say this, but you need time away from your sister, and maybe a lot of time. With your health problems, the constant emotional pain and disruption you are going through will only continue to lessen your ability to live with everything else. I wish you the best in dealing with all of this. I know how hard it is, especially when it involves someone who you really love. But you have to remember that you can't love someone else into loving you. I've tried and tried, and it simply doesn't work. Good luck, Anne.