good morning everyone and again thank you, had a rough day yesterday did a lot of soul searching, everyones reply gave me food for thought and i am doing what Jim did, trying to push deb out, without realizing sure i push her she dont have to deal with the MS anymore, but then her hearty laugh wont be heard as much, possibly. Or i might hurt and stop that caring and giving heart she has, so i do see pushing is not the answer, still sucks though.

thank you everyone for your kind and caring words, sure do like these friends i have gathered around me thanks