Donna,
I just hope that you start to think of yourself. Do something everyday for yourself. Also, it may not hurt if you leave papers about Alimony from off the Internet, and spousal allienation, woman that are in controling relationships, pamphlets about emoptional abuse.....Then too I would find friends to be busy with. Or make it seem you have a life, not adultry but a life outside the home filled with abuse.

A dose of his own emotional dumping except in your way it is dropping hints of what is to come.

HE is not going to change, you have to. Put yourself on the pedestial and take control of doing things to make yourelf happy and think of him as a room mate for now,
Hope that you feel better
di