All 3 of my sons said I could live with them but I told them there is no way it would work as I plan to live on my own to the very last moment and I will worry about it when the time comes, God knows we have enough to worry about to make it through each day, call me a coward but I avoid news, and other depressing things at all cost! I guess I will cross that bridge when I come to it....the only one I have in my whole family that I feel I can depend on when my husband is gone is my baby sister... I almost raised her and the other 4 could care less once I could no longer work and pass out money and credit cards!