Hi. Thanks. I would say you are accurate about my mom. I know she wants the best for me and feels I may become to dependent on her. The other day I said you talking to my mom ask what can I do when I have a horrible day and am crying through pain and usually I say nothing but now I ask for this and it is a no. I do feel though my mom needs a life and it is not fair for longer then the surgery recovery to stay with her so I am not going to. Tomorrow though were going to talk about me moving closer after the apt. Maybe if I was like 5 min it would make me feel safer and I could pop by. This is a big procedure and I would feel better even after the recovery cause things happen a long the way. I was think of a roomate but when I feel this bad having someone "normal" around could be hard because they would be loud or having friends over. I am trying to get my own support group together and a lady is suppose to call me next week for one she has. The rsd group I was going to go to was canceled cause the girl had some health issues with her scs. Not what I wanted to hear and we have the same doc.
Thanks Dejavu one day at a time. I glad you have your husband and your dog. I know my moms dog is so sweet. It is my ex dog actually but I was young then 20 and not very mature so he came to my parents. A good companion though