Thanks to all of the replies. I sent this link to my friend yesterday. She went through and read some of the posts. She was in awe of the number of people that are having similiar or have had similiar issues as me. She told me she wished she could take it all away. I told her I loved her for the thought. She is truly one of the best people I have ever met. She and her husband are good friends and I am so lucky to have friends and family that love and support me.