and writing!
This is a wonderful group of people here! We are all so fortunate to have one another to relate to!
I have more to say...but am very short on time today.
I feel your pain

and this will "sort itself out more!"
You are doing the "work" involved in identifying and processing the issues at hand!
(This will continue to help you as you think about htings and try to plan/make decsions.)
I want you to know that I, too, am thinking of you and wishing you the very best!
(I will be back as soon as I am able to do so... a small surgery tomorrow.)