Jan, I'm so sorry and sad to hear of all that you have going on.
I have problems at all 3 levels a long with lupus and FM and nerve damage.
I have to say though that the problems with the T spine are some of the more worrisome problems I have.
I am not operable at this time and have been told that they won't operate until and unless it is an emergency.
I know that on the orginal BT there a couple that have T spine surgery and I have read many of their post and from what I have heard from my drs and just researching that the T spine is very difficult to operate and recoup from.
You say you have researched your dr, I'm happy to hear that, I believe that you will need a neurologist and a orthopedic surgeon and a cardilogist for such a complicated surgery is this so?
Has this been an on going problem for you and have you tried any less invasive procedures or anything before going right in to surgery??
Myself I just can't imagine going through what your about to.
Hopefully the other BT will be up and running son so you can talk to some that have gone through this surgery.
Know your in my thoughts and I wish you the very best.
Linda