Hey again, Julie! I've talked to three people so far tonight, and all of them have been you. LOL I'm so sorry that today was such a bad day. Just taking care of seven children would be hard enough, without the other complications.
I suffer some from MCS. I used to work around chemicals all the time and they never bothered me. I owned an auto repair shop. But once I became ill it seems I started developing several chemical sensitivities. I also have fibro, but it's secondary for me. It's been six years since I became ill, and just a little while back they finally diagnosed me with a type of spreading nerve illness. I think they just got embarrassed at their own inability to find what was wrong, so they made up some name to put on the charts.
Anyway, I understand a good part of what you're going through, and you have my moral support. I hope tomorrow turns out to be a much better day for you, and feel welcome to vent whenever you want! If I see it, I'll answer. Good luck, Julie.