I was around when this activity was going on in the 70's. I was very naive, divorced and 21 with a 2 year old baby boy. I started going out to the clubs because it was the thing to do. It really was like the movie "Saturday Night Fever". Really a fun time, great music and dancing.
I was invited to a party and it didn't take long for me to realize what was going on and get the heck out of there. It scared the crp out of me.
I am by no means a prude either but I have never discussed such things as KY, Viagra, sex or sex toys with my best friends. I don't want to see it on TV either. It's all very private and should stay that way as far as I'm concerned.