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In Remembrance
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Join Date: Aug 2006
Posts: 1,002
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In Remembrance
Join Date: Aug 2006
Posts: 1,002
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I am truly very sorry I've been too sick to call or write you during this incredibly difficult time you're having. I did pray a lot for us though!
About "giving permission" -
also give permission to yourself to NOT be here,
to NOT have to answer the phone,
to NOT have to take on everyone's problems, etc.
My feeling of you is that you may take on too much, when you need help yourself.
Also, if you don't like your counselor, keep searching for one you like.
It took me until the 5th counselor (in work comp) to now have this grief counselor who seems perfect. The one my attorney chose and raved about was incredibly rude and was just about making the buck - and my attorney was personally hurt that I didn't rave about him also. Well, I stuck to my wishes that for my personality, we didn't mesh, and I hunted on. Now I found an incredible "Grief" counselor who is doing all of my counseling via phone. Perfect.
So stick up for yourself in these days ahead, sweet one.
If you're ever able to travel to OC, we have a spare room for you & hubby in a queen bed, or reas. hotel nearby.
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