can you bring the box etc back to work and find a storage area for it and let his friend pick it up? I believe in vibrations. You definitely have to be more clear. Also maybe you have to point out to her that you know what it is important to you and at times she doesn't seem interested. Why not put her on the defensive? I had a bad reaction when I read your words that you thought she might not be interested..
I forgot the herbs but I think there are herbs that you can put in your office for cleansing the place.
Bobby