Don't go, my dear friend:

We all have had this happen to us. We gain weight, we don't want to look in the mirror, we don't get on scales (I still don't look at the scale, but at least I get on one, lol).

It just takes time to get your head wrapped around what you need to do.

I have also had a lump in my breast that was removed.

You have a lot on your plate right now. Don't beat yourself up.

You'll get through this.

Melody