Poor Tanya, it isn't her fault!
A while ago I posted a thread asking about sharing creative ways to explain our various symptoms. What I got was a few responders (including our Kelly) saying they're sick of explaining, and sharing creative ways to tell people "bite me".
If somebody really, really wants explanation, I have some ready. Most of the time they mean well, but it seems as though they either want to argue with you or say "I know just how you feel...."
I agree with those who just get sick of it.