Hi, Hippiechick! Welcome to NeuroTalk!

You're doing just fine! I'm afraid I've never heard of shy-drager's so I'm not sure where to suggest you begin in our many forums. We do have a nifty search engine located in the toolbar near the top of every page. You might try searching for discussions that pertain to you.

Your attitude is great and I'm sure you'll find our community supportive and informative. Feel free to join in anywhere and let us know if we can assist you in navigating the forums.