Hi, Judy!

Welcome to NeuroTalk!
Is there anything more aggravating than incompetence?!? ugh. Sorry this has happened to you.
When you see the neuro, your best bet is to let him/her ask you the questions then fill in the blanks.
As for your attorney, I would ask for professional references and a trial record. In the meantime, I always recommend that people get a dedicated dayplanner to write down all the associated symptoms and events on a daily basis. This will help you build a timeline not only for the lawyer but also for the neuro.
I sure hope this can be corrected and resolved quickly for you.