I can truly understand what you are going through, I have a 22 year old daughter who is bipolar and her meds do not have her stabilized yet. She attempted suicide twice and was just released today from the "Crisis Stabilization Unit".

I feel they let her out too soon as she has not even been put on a mood stabilizer only anti anxiety medicines to bring her down from the "mania" stage.

I asked the center where my husband and I could go to get help in dealing with her and setting appropriate boundaries and they recommended an Al Anon Support group....

We are going to try this tomorrow, but I don't really "get" the connection with Bipolar.

I hope this helps......