Hi Mari,

When my husband was still living with me I lived so very isolated on count of how abusers do their mates. I eventually started trying to look up people I was fond of in my past and while my friend Mike was the only one who wanted to have anything to do with me that I was able to find, it was well worth any effort to find him. At 1st I contacted him to find his sister who I also hung around with as kid. Then after the split up with my husband about a month later we started talking about once a week or two.

befuddled2