I'm so sorry. I don't know what to say. Been there, done that with the DH. Someone set him up and it was very ugly and psychologically very damaging to him. The good news is that he is in a better place now and it was probably a blessing in disguise, but at the time it was very traumatic.
I'm just so sorry. I don't know your story, but I know a bit of what you are probably feeling.