Absolutely not. It is against the law for any medical professional to speak to anyone other than the patient about your condition. Even Jim had to sign at the urologist that I could have access to his records/medical information. I would call the office and tell them they broke confidentiality laws and you are not happy. That is outragious! I think it's time to switch neuros at this point if you can and tell mom to never ever call your doctors again without you knowing about it.