Thank you Mari. Yes he knows, my fear is that his judgement is skewed. At least he is not far from me, I can be there in less than ten minutes. I am going over there today to take some of his DVDs over. He wants to watch movies. I will have a long talk with his girlfriend's mother.

I guess I am going back into list mode and will have to get the "notebook" out and start making lists and questions and all the phone calls that I need to take care of before school starts.