My heart goes out to you!
I cannot begin to understand the emotional pain you've been through already with your darling daughter.
I'l not even try to offer you any advice. I think a little one like your daughter needs the advice of experts, not some-one like me, but I will offer you my support.
Please let us know if we can help in any way. Here's the link to our Children's Health Forum. Maybe some of our other parents might be able to help you through this difficult time. :
http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/forum9.html
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