My son came home from Iraq 2 years ago (he joined marines because he wanted to be just like his messed up alcoholic Daddy that won't even speak of his time in Vietnam and I was so happy when my son was given a general discharge because he took his laptop with him, another kid was messing with it and one of them downloaded a child porn page) (not my son, he is very much about honor and protecting kids) but I think it was from downloading songs from limewire, people attach nasty files (I have found some awful stuff on my laptop and I am only user so I quit using it) but they are both so messed up with PTSD that I don't know if they will ever get over it! My dh for the first time in over 40 years is getting help for it through the VA and I can already see a change in him and I want so bad for my son to get the same help as I know they both saw and did things they can't hardly live with and I feel so angry with the Gov for luring them there! Dh begged our son not to join, but it did no good, then they kick him to the curb for something he did not do.....I think it is so they can take his benefits from him, but his discharge will become honorable after a year and his laptop was returned to him....I just think they are evil! Just a angry wife and mothers opinion. I worry all the time that suicide will one day get one or both of them