His Father does as much as he can, but the bulk of childcare falls onto my shoulders. I will be so glad when things change and we go our separate ways and our son is placed into a group home. He really needs it since he won't listen to me or his father, it's a really bad situation. I have to be on my guard always, and if I go to the bathroom in the morning while his father is still in bed, the kid will go get into the peanut butter which makes him hyper, or otherwise make a mess in the kitchen.

Thank you both for posting, I appreciate the well wishes and the prayers, I really feel it helps. Just talking helps too. I have to get ready for my appt. in an hour so I have to run. Just wanted to post to add about his father and how this morning while I was in the bathroom the kiddo got into the peanut butter.