Hang in there, Mary! I think we all feel that way at one time or another. For some of us, the bright, caring medical people seem to be few and far between. But they are out there - I just saw one this week. She is so compassionate, it seems like she should have been a bartender instead.

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I hope you don't need to postpone your revision that long. I have a daughter's wedding coming up in December, too and I know what you mean about not missing it for anything! I have to be there for "daddy's girl's" special day at any cost!

But I certainly would not want to be fresh out of surgery, either. I am going to have a GOOD TIME!
Mike