I am so slow . I need a 'weekly insights thread' LOL. The heat is killer here too. Nothing unusual for here though. All summer the forecast is high 90 degrees low of 78 . I have a lousy day ahead of me . Appointment with bankruptcy attorney (how humiliating to admit that) at 5 pm. Not my best time of day . I've gotta make sure I have my entire life on paper together to haul in. I think I've made peace with it though, kinda, sorta. I keep telling myself it's not the end of the world. It is just so embarrassing even though I know it isn't my fault that I lost 40 percent of my income and dh and son have Crohn's and copays and dh's loss of income have driven us to this drastic measure. Ok, I feel better now . I'm done with my complaining for the day . Renee: tell your ex that 3 am calls are for life and death situations only .