My Philosophy (and I used it out loud on my BIL (LOL) is "If it weren't for the _______s we all be full of "carp", hm, hm, you know what I mean.

Well meaning people always offer their "Help" (Not that I ask) and tell me about a neighbor doing better now a doctor in another state has declared he really is Lyme-diseased, this same neighbor once was doing bee stings and it wasdid better. These things are mentioned once, turns out they're not really helping, I never hear about this stuff again. Ive been told about diet sodas (which I don't drink!!). eating right, juices, etc. . I've learned to smile and just say thank you with an eager to try their sage wisdom look on my face. Shuts them up. Everyone is an expert!! My job is not to educate them they're being idiotic.