Hi Ali, I am so sorry to hear of the troubles your family is facing. I am not dealing with any of things you are, so I am not sure what help I could offer. but I was glad to see you have found other boards on NT that could be of help to you. Care giving is the hardest, yet most rewarding “job” anyone could ever have. This board isn’t too active, but keep posting and we can all try to help each other through it