I couldn't believe they banned me so I emailed the administrator. There were three exchanges. They said, "Shame Shame on you for not following the rules" I asked what it was that I did after suppling my email URL etc. They replied that I didn't follow the rules. I emailed back that their lock step mentality, vague rules and dispassion for people newly diagnosed with life threatening issues could hurt someone. They emailed back saying to never email them again.
Power heads and its so sad because that forum is filled with people in great need. Luckily I found a real forum dealing with the cancer we are facing. These people are contemptable and should not be placing themselves on the internet at compassionate and helpful. In fact they should be banned from even running that sham of a site!
Thank you all for allowing me to vent.