It's very nice to meet you. I'm very sorry about your husband's condition, but he is very lucky to have so much support from you. I know that means a lot to him. My wife was supportive for the first year or so before she gave up on me, and it made such a difference! So know that you are already probably helping your husband more than you know.

Good luck to you and your husband, MTP, and I hope that by some miracle he gets his surgery a lot sooner than you expect.