I love the cup analogy also...

sometimes, I think, I need a bucket...but even with a bucket, it will happen sooner or later just like the cup...only delaying it...

Nik, so glad you are on the road to forgive him...it's gotta be hard...

I am so very glad that you and Alpho and others are posting...

I am learning from your posts...your pain, your anguish, your lost..

and that helps me keep myself in check...

much love to you guys...