nik,

it's gotta be one of the hardest decisions in your life to make...but I applaud you in making that decision and please know that there really isn't a right or wrong in your decision...

what I see is that you are going to offer Lynn a quality of life...one where instead of being dragged around getting tested here and there...

you are offering him quality time to be spending with him for whatever remains....

I hope da wife comes in later and share some of her views on how she took care of her dementia patients...and that toward the end, it is more quality of life that is needed and wanted...

Lynn is so very lucky to have you and you to have him...

I can only hope that toward this part of your journeys together, that there will hopefully be more hand holding and hearts melting than needles probing and testings...

((((BIG HUGS))))

love,

da mois