my advice AMN gave you already....you must set your own boundarys depending on what YOU want and need for YOU and YOUR CHILD...hun....

Dont discuss with him what he wants....what kind of relationship he wants or expects...dont talk to him about messing with your head...cause then he is in control..and that is what he wants..hun...

please for your sake..do what AMN said...set your boundarys and stick by that....if he then keeps calling...dont answer

the week thing, I think, you may have the right not to allow that..as long as allowing regular visiting in your area....hugsss and good luck, sarah

(you need for your health well being...to do this....otherwise he is messing with your head too much...hugsss)