Hey Nae~ I have been following your "ordeal" throughout the Insights thread and I really feel bad for all he has put you and your children through. I agree that you are giving him way too many priviledges for a divorced couple.

He wanted the divorce and cannot keep dragging your emotions all over the place. You can only handle so much. Your'e right, the children come first and you, as Mommy, know what is best.
I'd tell him to have his parents visit Olivia in your town and I really think HE should get some counseling.

Hang in there R~ It's hard to tell someone to stop loving another person, but he is showing a clear pattern that is unhealthy for you and the children. You are far more stronger than you give yourself credit for and I'm really proud of you.

Sending you hugs and please know that we care about you here.

Kiss Olivia's boo boo for me. She's such a sweet lil girl having to go through grown up problems. Take care of YOU!!!!