I talked to him a little while ago...he called. I told him look you wanted the divorce you cannot keep calling me. As for the visitation he can legally take her for the week his parents do live in the state just 2 hours away but I cannot tell you the number of times they have had social services at their house regarding their other grandchild...this I am not comfortable with, after all what if they come in and take all of the kids in the house and Olivia is there? I have told him he is being completely selfish and I could give a dman if he thinks about my feelings or not but that he needs to respect the feelings and emotional well being of the kids!

Frank- I have a counselor whom I have known since I was a child myself and he is a Godsend!