yes I agree with Cindy too, Daisey that was well said she is a lot stronger than she gives credit too, but being a sole parent for a long time. I also know whats its like to have doubts of oneself, sometimes when you get pushed down so far its hard to see what your true self is, Renee DM was right though you are a strong person and a loving caring parent, set the ground rules like
AMN said you are in control never forget that