Originally Posted by who moi

He's a manipulative man playing with your emotions...playing with what residual love that he knows he can manipulate...

and he is manipulating that left over love that you have left for him and confusing you with it...

on top of that, you feel unloved, unwanted, and self-unassured...cause he left you...

and it makes you ask yourself, why doesn't he love you...why...HE, doesn't love YOU...

and then you start to doubt yourself, you start to doubt your own self-worth...

he plays those tricks on you..makes you feel bad about yourself thus he is able to call you cause he knows that you are alone, lonely, and even though logically, you know that he is playing tricks with you...you just can't help it cause you just want to hear his voice...

maybe hoping to hear some sort of "love" in his voice...

cause you want to be loved...by someone that you have spent a big chunk of your life for...and it makes you feel like you've wasted those times..and that those times were YOUR investments and that you just don't want to lose your investments...

and that causes you more confusion cause you might think that there IS some sort of love there...but is there?? Is there ENOUGH love there??

ask yourself all the questions you already know the answers to....

is he there to help you take care of you, your children?

Is he there to hold you in the middle of the night while you cry and tire?

No...he is just calling you, to bug you, cause he wants to know that he is king stud and that he can come back to you whenever he wants to, cause he can manipulate you...and he is just throwing you enough of a carrot...dangling it infront of you, to make you THINK that he cares...and that he CARES about his children...maybe he cares about his children...I can't say that he doesn't...

but does he care about you? What are the facts....where are his actions?? Look at it all...

Love yourself, Nae, love yourself like NO ONE could...that is one of the best ways to get out of his control...realizing how much your self worth is...

folks here may have said things you might not want to hear, but those are golden words...and that means they truly care about you...

and sometimes, truth hurts...

love yourself...get out of his shadow...

((((BIG HUGS))))