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Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: Earth (I think)
Posts: 780
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Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: Earth (I think)
Posts: 780
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help needed
I am too numb to know what to ask for and God is nowhere to be found. Why I am posting here I really do not know. I was a spiritual person but now I'm not so sure. Here is my story-
My husband of 20 years and I are unofficially separating. He is moving to the (daylight) basement and the kids and I will stay on the main floor. I suspect we will be divorced within the next six years. Probably sooner rather than later. While unofficially separated we plan to live in the same house/ different floors for monetary reasons which are complicated and probably going to get much worse. The official divorce would be right after our youngest child graduates from high school if we can last that long. We would live in separate houses after that.
As you can imagine I am a ball of emotions right now. Yes this has been brewing for a long time but still it is excruciatingly painful. If counseling was going to fix this it would have long ago. Been there, done that off and on for 20 years, not going anywhere near it again. The only counseling I'm interested in right now is of the lawyer kind. Sadly I can't afford it. Not sure I can not afford it either. I am too numb to think straight. I don't know what to do or what I want.
Thanks for listening.
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12/02- health world implodes, 11/05- Raynaud's (Brr!), 2/07- celiac, 3/07- gluten free diet
I will survive.
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