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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: USA
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: USA
Posts: 278
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Echoing what Sandy said: "Don't give up on God; He hasn't given up on you". I tend to agree with you that therapy is not going to be the magic bullet here. You have already given it a lot of time. I suppose that, now, it is time for 'divide and conquer'... That is the practical approach when there are too many problems.
First, I would do (quoting Sandy again...) try to find a pro-bono lawyer. At the same time, or as soon as you can, make a Xerox copy of all your documents as well as your children's. Don't forget bank books, insurance policies or any othe important paper. You never know what you may need. This will also keep you occupied. Be proactive at this time.
Let your husband be in the basement and try to forget that he is there. I know easier said than done. Enjoy your kids and let them enjoy your company and share time and their life experiences (school, etc) in the kitchen. Make the best of what you have now. 
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