One of my Favorite sayings ...
I learned it is the weak who are cruel and gentleness is to be expected olny from the strong --- Leo Rosten
do you have the T.n. book strikingback? I think it is called there is others to you can throw at the Doctors ... pop them in the noggin ha ha.
Burntmarshmallow

the book here is a link
http://www.tna-support.org/storefront/products.asp?id=2
the hand book is great by itself .