Hi, Carolyn!

Welcome to NeuroTalk!
It sounds like you are very attentive to your daughter's needs and I applaud you for that.
We have several mental health forums here at NT, they are found near the bottom third of the main index. These each focus on specific conditions and you may find it helpful to browse and start a thread(s) of your own specific questions.
We also have a parent site, PsychCentral, where you will find many additional resources including another message board where you can discuss her issues with many adults who are experiencing them.
PsychCentral:
http://forums.psychcentral.com/
You are more than welcome to join in anywhere and let us know if we can assist you in any way.