Hi,
It is possible that the district really does have a 40 40 20 rule.
But they can break their own stupid rule whenever they want.
Also, I think I read somewhere (brain / memory fog) about a parent who got an adjustment on the homework.
Making adjustments about the homework on an IEP sounds like something they could do.
But I am not up on the rules -- just a former hs teacher.
Most likely, the school officials are not telling you the truth.
Trust your gut. When your gut feels better, you will have the right IEP.
Sorry, I am not more specific. I really wish I could offer more concrete help. He sounds like he is suffering so much.
It is the nature of the schools to try to treat every student the same. It's not natural for them to try to do individual plans. They don't "get it" -- even the officials with specialized training in IEPs.
Have you requested / insisted that the school test your son with a psychologist?
Mari
A possibly useful web site if you have not seen it yet.
http://www.wrightslaw.com
http://www.wrightslaw.com/advoc/articles/Crisis.html
Quote:
Crisis Management - Step by Step
by Pete and Pam Wright
In this article, you will learn how to manage a crisis with the school. We describe typical parent-school crises that cause parents to seek outside help. You will learn that a crisis has two sides: danger and opportunity. We will describe how to avoid common pitfalls and provide strategies you can use to weather a crisis.
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