Dear Bizi,
I am on the birth control pill -- these things are a bit different for me.
I am 44 now.
But my mom stopped her periods at 45.....

The last time I had night sweats I was detoxing from Xanax last summer -- I woke up at night and changed my shirt. My hair was soaking wet too. The whole thing felt strange. This happened a few nights.

Take care of yourself. I think that we learn to do this better than other people do. And sometimes I try to see it as an acquired gift.

(I guess that I am already getting in the mood to see my therapist tomorrow. She focuses on the postive. She even insists in her own talk in stating things in the positive.)

Mari