Vonn good advice....

When I first get home from work, which I run a McDonald's so when there...so much going on in my mind and notes that I keep....

So when I walk in the house, most days I can handle the kids..and all...

some days though...if they all start talking at once....and trying to say hi and bye to hubby...( we work opposite shifts not much time together)...I get so overwhelmed and lost in the head..that I have to Say STOP.....otherwise I get to yelling at the kids when I shouldnt need to...

so I just quickly say...(dont really say STOP TOO much) but I say WAIT mom has to sit down, and just rest her mind a bit....

sitting down and breathing....helps...
try to let go of the worries you cant control....the son moving back in...did you give moving back in terms...might be a good idea...like him paying a bit of rent...or helping around the house if staying there....

good luck hun, hugsss,sarah