BMW, one of those posts you see, is from me
You know hun, life is too short to spend it with someone who makes
you feel this way..... I know, I know how hard it is to leave....

My sister's case ...she had emotional and physical abuse. She divorced him.
She lost her home in the battle, as her ex wouldn't pay the court ordered
child support, so she and the kids are living here with me. Home, isn't simply
a house. It is where one feels safe and loved.

I have another friend who has an alcoholic husband. He isn't abusive, but
it is just sucking the life out of her. She wants to leave, she loves him
but isn't IN love with him any more. She isn't willing to live with friends or
family, and can't make it on her own just yet. So, she made a plan.
She is now back in school to become a nurse.

All marriages require work. If only one is willing to try to make it work, the
other suffers. I can see... you are suffering. I can't tell you what you
should do, only you know. But, I can tell you... life is too damn short to
be with someone who is poison to your very soul. You have power Tina,
use it. You can not control how one treats you... but you CAN control
how you let them effect you.

You are beautiful! You are wonderful! You have a heart of pure gold
Surround yourself with those who see you for the gift you ARE!!
Much love my Angel friend