I just thought of one ultimate mistake I am making with EVERYONE and a philosophical way to stop making it. Namely my assumption that neither myself nor other ever change, and the logical conclusion that everything needs to be perfect, everything needs to be explained, and every little issue needs to be dragged on. I also invented a LOGICAL way of perswading myself to stop doing it -- after all logic is the only thing that works with me. Here it goes:
http://www.wrongplanet.net/asperger....174&highlight=