Oh Joelle, how can you post something about yourself and not expect us to come on and give you momma advice? You've been through so much and we just don't want to see or hear that you feel like you've let anyone down, especially yourself.

My best advice is to only do what you can, simple. That's what I do when I can't be in fifty places at once. When the boys were in school I couldn't volunteer for anything in the future because Jim could be sick that day, etc. So, I volunteered to bake and make phone calls. I offered up my skills in designing programs and such and they loved that. LOL

So, I think you should do what you can for the big man and tell the others that there will be times you can't show up. Ask that someone call you and fill you in.

Now,