I think we, as women, rely on our friends for more emotional support and guys participate in activities together.
I know that my husband would never understand if I said I thought a friend was being thoughtless or inconsiderate......that's pretty much standard operating procedure for how he interacts with people
I hear you.......sad to say but I wish my biggest problem in life was once again that I was running late for work because I had to run a forgotten backpack or lunch to the kids' school. But, back then, I did think that was a big crisis. Ugh !