Thanks for the kind words Kitty. Unfortunately you can understand and at least I know I am not alone. Poor DBF...he didn't know what to do! He is a trooper! I think I stunded him pretty good with my f bombs! You know what, now that you say they relate to labor pains, I agree. He was rubbing one foot and it felt better so he switched to the other foot and I almost ripped his head off it hurt so bad....similar to delivery!