I think most women can tell a story of near and creepy and where you least expect. I had an Uncle (by marriage) who would give you a kiss and try to slip his tongue in. I was young but knew to keep my teeth clenched after that. My other aunt had her brother's kids after his death, she confronted him after one of the young teen girls told her something. I taught Emotionally disturbed kids, stories of Uncles, Fathers, cousins, brothers, baby-sitter husband. mom's guy - most really horrible stories. Not media generated hysteria, it's out there.